Now's the ideal time to try Internet dating. The stigma is history, the sites are man-packed and your privacy is protected. Here is all the info you need to meet your dream man.
Where to Start Your Search
There are hundreds of dating sites, so we weeded through the Web to help you choose where to click for cuties. Your best bet is to pick either the most popular (read: loaded with men) or most specialized (to narrow your search). To ensure a site is legit, read the privacy policy -- it should state that they won't share your personal stats and that all correspondence is done anonymously through the site to keep your identity private until you reveal it.
Most sites work the same way - you can post a profile, browse the ads to see who's out there and receive messages for free, but you have to pay if you want to take the next step and initiate contact.
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Why the Web Is a Woman's Market
It's ladies' night whenever you log on - the Web is full of fine guys. Most sites we checked out have a male registration of 65 percent; some even have two guys for every female. Why? "Men are used to pursuing women, so the Web is just an extension of that," explains Jeffrey Ullman, founder of the non-Web-based Greater Relations Worldwide matchmaking service in Los Angeles.
Creating the Perfect Profile
The best strategy is knowing what not to say. "Women are often too critical of their appearance; this is the time to crow about your best attributes," says Susan Rabin, author of Cyberflirt. Jeanette, 25, learned this the hard way. "The first profile I posted mentioned that I wanted to drop a few pounds," she says. "Once I changed it to say I had an hourglass figure, I got three times as many responses." Also, disclose personal issues with discretion. "Skip talk about exes and physical, emotional and financial challenges," says Trish McDermott, vice president of romance for Match.com. You should get to know him before spelling out any baggage or shortcomings. Don't overwrite -- keep it between 50 and 100 words -- to maintain some mystery and privacy (remember, anyone can read your profile).
Screen Name or Headline
Use this opportunity to intrigue. You'll stand out more with a saucy moniker like Tons o' Fun instead of something neutral like Looking for Love.
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Photo
You should include a pic. Match.com reports that users who post a flattering snap of themselves get eight times more responses.
Opening Line
Begin with a brief physical description like "Fit, all-American blonde" or "Ultrafeminine, exotic-looking brunette." It's key to paint a vivid picture of the whole you. It can conjure up an image that will hook guys quickly.
Your Unique Attributes
This reveals something specific about your personality that helps him understand you.
A Little More Info
It's important to reveal character traits but not too much personal information. This gives the reader a clear idea of your interests without dumping a laundry list on him.
Make Your Demands
Being up-front about what you want in a man will weed out some inappropriate applicants. Plus, mentioning movies, music and other hobbies gives guys a clear idea of what you may have in common.
What It's Like to Date You
An example of how you spend your weekends shows the action-oriented male mind how he fits your list. Plus, since men love to teach you what they know, listing something you hope to learn or improve on will appeal to his alpha-male side.
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